Making your own decisions: Be empowered and fully fulfilled - Secret 2.0, Law Of Attraction

After taking birth, human baby remains dependent on his parents for food, shelter, and decision making for at least 10-12 years and in this period he rapidly grows his mental and physical capabilities. And in following few years become mature. But this childhood habit of depending on parents for food, shelter, and decision making does not go automatically for most people even in adulthood. Most people continues to depend on others for decision making even in their 40s. We all have a very similar brain and if we use it properly, we all can make best decisions for our families and ourselves.  No one else knows your situation, desires, resources, capabilities, interests, and passion better than you do. SO you must not take decisions based on people’s knowledge, opinions, perspectives, and mindsets. And as you will start taking your own decisions, you will gradually become better in taking right decisions.

Your purpose, goals, and emotions help you in the decision-making process. To chose between two options, just ask which option will take me nearer to my goals and is easier to do right now.

If you remain busy whole day and still not moving closer to your goals and dream life, you must change your prioritization and elimination system. The first step in making is saying ‘No’ or ignore things and people that are:

(Tv, newspaper, trying to correct past mistakes or making up  for losses instead of focusing on highly productive work)

Successful people are extremely conscious of their time and productivity. They consistently improve their effectiveness and efficiency. They make their priorities clear to their employees and allocate their time according to these priorities. If you are having very busy life or not getting time to do important things, then most probably problem lies in prioritization and execution. You can do better prioritization by categorizing things and tasks into following categories: